How to stay centered, not scattered despite the Here Come The Holidays
Stop the Spin: make space for what matters We’ve done it. We’ve turned the calendar to November. And you know what that means: holidays, family, gatherings, goals, all the things. This is the time of year when routines fly out the window and your brain says, “Eh, I’ll start again in January.” WAIT. Before you throw your habits to the wind, let’s talk about what I call the Sacred Routine. It’s your path to PEACE and PRESENCE during the holidays. Think of it as structure as self-care, ritual as renewal.
What almost burning my kitchen taught me about time and self management
How routines save your focus (and maybe your whole home) Before we begin…please note: This is a very personal accounting of me being very vulnerable with a mistake. It can happen to anyone, and in holiday time, it’s more imp’t than ever to keep our sh*t together. Come tomorrow to Overachievers and we will do that. SIGN UP HERE. =================================================== If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I’m a big advocate for theme days, for starting and ending your weeks, your days, and even your months WITH
Dream it, then do it: Slow is Sacred
Why the most powerful change begins with one small brave action. Earlier this week I joined a podcast conversation that felt more like a soul chat than an interview. I was recently interviewed by Laureen Quick, and we instantly connected. We share a similar view of life – one that’s grounded in dreaming big. Her very first question hit home: “If someone is standing at the trailhead of change but unsure where to step, what’s one small brave action they could take this week?” I loved that. Because that’s what
Why tiny steps lead to the biggest transformations
You don’t have to leap. You just have to begin. I want to talk with you about the real reason you’re probably procrastinating. This came up during a full, beautiful session of The Overachievers Club on Oct 13, and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. Procrastination often shows up when you believe that what you’re about to do won’t make a difference – or that you won’t be able to see results fast enough. And let’s be honest, sometimes it just doesn’t sound fun. If you’ve ever resisted sending
Stop slogging through it: Realign your energy and rediscover your flow
You don’t need to push through the hard parts – you need to listen to what they’re teaching you. Before we Begin TOMORROW is your chance to finally get out of your own da*n way. At the OVERACHIEVERS CLUB (no cost) we will Be Bolder and Level up! We will learn and practice How to keep commitments to ourselves. If you are not a member, sign up here. Do it now and change your plans. It’s lunch time Eastern, and it’s a holiday for many, so there are zero excuses….unless
Getting more done in less time without burning out
Shift from constant hustle to a sustainable rhythm of energy and rest. For years I lived and breathed productivity. As a consultant and coach, I worked with countless entrepreneurs on systems, tools, and techniques to squeeze the most out of their hours. But in my mid-50s, I hit a wall. Life shifted, family needed me, and I faced burnout head-on. This experience changed how I think about productivity. It’s no longer about doing more, faster. It’s about learning how to level up without burning out. The power of cycles If
Simple shifts to spark motivation and protect your energy
How you can cut through scatter when you have a busy brain As entrepreneurs – especially those of us with busy, creative, or neurodiverse brains – it’s so easy to scatter our energy across endless emails, tasks, and distractions. Here’s the game-changer: focus days. Focus days (aka “theme days”) give your week structure and freedom at the same time. Instead of spinning your wheels trying to do everything, you give each day a clear purpose. Now…there are MANY ways you can set up your week. Here is “roughly” mine: Monday
How building a spiral garden became a lesson in leadership and vision
Why small steps matter when you’re creating something big It’s more than a chia pet. It’s a living symbol of growth. This is the moment where vision meets action. What began as a dream is now taking form in the world. As the seasons turn, projects take shape in unexpected ways. My home is right now the Beacon of Light Center. The spiral we’re building is more than a garden feature – it’s a symbol of growth, cycles, and community. What started as a pile of dirt….as we told our
You hold the scissors: Cut what no longer fits your schedule
A fall reset for reclaiming your time and energy For many of us – solopreneurs, and especially coaches – this season brings a rush of ideas and inspiration. It also brings a reminder: you are in charge of your time. Fall has a way of stirring things up. The air cools, routines shift, and there’s a subtle energy of new beginnings. As I saw my son off for his final year of high school, I felt the weight of everything on my plate. But then came the realization, the gem
What exactly is Beacon of Light and Why does it matter?
It goes beyond more focus and less distraction. It’s about doing what MATTERS. THE SPIRAL BEGINS!!!! (take two) In 2017, it was a collage. In 2022, it became a rebrand and an LLC. In 2025, it’s becoming something real, palpable and meaningful. The Beacon of Light Center is undergoing its next transformation – not just as an idea or an internal reality, but as a place you can touch, stand in, and feel. The vision is taking shape in the form of a sculpted earth spiral: a land-based symbol that