Reducing reactions when you have AD/HD
In our previous blog, we delved into the change of mindset that is needed to enable us to switch from a reactive mindset to a proactive one. In this blog, we’ll be discovering how those with an AD/HD brain can deal with heightened reaction. Many people with AD/HD are really sensitive and emotional. And, as amazing of a gift as this is, it can get in the way. The AD/HD brain has a different working memory structure. This can allow an emotion to become too strong, flooding the brain with
In reactionary mode? Go from reactive to proactive in 3 easy steps
How skilled are you in “Mastering the Moment”? You know, those life situations where you feel overwhelmed, albeit temporarily, by anger, despair, nervousness or confusion? In these situations, how we choose to deal with these negative emotions can make the difference between proactive versus reactive behavior, success and failure. The problem with “reaction” is that it happens after the event. It’s how we act when faced with an already-occurring situation and is governed by the event itself. We let the event control our behavior while we scramble just to stay
Creative time management to capitalize on your natural energy cycles
In our last blog, we focussed on how to stop our time-saving routine from working against us. In this blog, we’re going to discover how we can maximize our natural energy cycle and how to work with it, rather than against it. How are productivity, time management, and energy cycles related? If you’ve ever started work super-busy and energized only to find that by mid-afternoon you’ve crashed, then you’ll know that not all hours of the day are created equal as far as work is concerned. Our bodies all have
More time, less stress: top 3 time wasters and what to do about them
If you could have the proverbial three wishes, I’m guessing one of those would be to gain more time in some form or another; more family- time, for the kids to not grow up so quickly, for more “me-time”. But, have you considered just how much time is wasted in the everyday things we do? For most of us, routine is what gets us through the day. We wake up at the same time, we follow the same routine of grabbing a coffee, maybe heading along the same route to
Motivation that Lasts: 3 Ways to Catapult your Motivation in 2020!
It’s the same every year. After the holiday rush, many of us are now reflecting on last year’s gains and losses and making plans for the year ahead. But this sort of reflection can lead to uncomfortable questions on why things maybe didn’t go as planned? Why, when you were adamant a few weeks back that you would go to the gym every day, has that resolution fallen by the wayside? And how will you ensure that the things you resolve to do this year will stick? The problem with
Manufactured Motivation: 5 ways to ‘Do It’ to do when you just ‘Can’t Do It’
There are always those tasks that we really don’t want to do. But whereas most of us can see the benefit of completing these jobs and will therefore just “suck it up” and get the job done, for people with AD/HD, these tasks can become impossible to achieve. AD/HD and manufactured motivation In my last blog, we looked at how to motivate ourselves when willpower has taken a hike. For those with AD/HD, feeling bad about yourself and your abilities can manifest in a lack of motivation, making carrying out
What to do if you can’t force yourself to do a task without seeing the “bigger picture” completely
How many times have you caught yourself saying “I can’t do “this” task right now, without knowing how it fits into the bigger picture” or “I just need a plan”? Procrastination seems justified at that moment. Why would you wish to “waste” time if “It does not matter?” Ask yourself this: Is this really the need for the circumstances to be perfect; for all the pieces of the jigsaw to be in place, before we can move on and complete the task? Or, is it something else…is there a tool
Morning Success = Lasting Success
It’s amazing to think that one small tweak in your routine can change the outlook of your day. We’ve all heard that if we “wake up earlier, we’ll be more productive” and that can be true. There’s something relieving in starting your day before everyone else and amazing how much more you can achieve in those rare, precious minutes of quiet before the household stirs. But, setting the alarm thirty minutes earlier is only the beginning of the story. If you’re going to sacrifice thirty minutes of precious rest time,
Why it can be difficult to sleep with AD/HD and what to do about it
In our last blog, we looked at 3 ways in which you could be compromising your sleep and simple steps to get back onto the path of restful sleep. In this blog, we are focusing on why sleep can be especially difficult with AD/HD and what you can do about it. When you have a mind like a Ferrari with bicycle brakes, the “normal” advice may or may not work for you. I think that all “AD/HD tips” can be used for “anyone” but the reverse is not always true.
3 things to do to stop compromising your sleep
What does a good night’s sleep look like to you? Is it seven or eight hours, maybe more? But a “good sleep” is about much more than the hours of shut eye you achieve on a nightly basis. It also means the right kind of sleep. Sleep affects our ability to function; our ability to use language, sustain attention, our comprehension of written and spoken word, so if we lose out on that secret sauce, then it stands to reason that we may compromise our performance, our mood and our