What about when your spouse/partner is not supportive of The New and Improved you?
You’ve made a plan in your head, you’re clear on how you are going to move forwards, your milestones and your goals. Who better to share these ideas and plans with than your partner or spouse? The person who is closest to you, right? Only to discover that they are not supportive of the new and improved you. Ouch! A real sting for the system, that sinking feeling deep in the pit of your stomach. So, what now? Figure out what is really going on. Your first and most instinctive
What is a supporter and why is s/he important?
Read any book you like about success stories and you’ll find that each one of those people had someone behind them, supporting them, pushing them along and picking them up when times get hard. I would challenge anyone claiming solo success, to take a real good look around them, upon review, they’ll likely find this isn’t true! A supporter of you and your ideas can come in any form. It may be someone with likeminded ideas and dreams, that you can bounce ideas off and celebrate wins together. It may
How to live within your means and stay connected to your dreams
Do you ever find yourself comparing your life to those around you? Perhaps on social media, in pictures of friends and family, living what you can only call paradise, while you’re sat at home on a rainy Sunday scrolling through your phone. It’s easy to get carried away right? Not everybody has the same resources, circumstances, or financial situation, so how do you continue to move forwards with your life and do it within your means? The formula is fairly simple. Add a little passion, a touch of courage and
How to stop considering “dreams” as fantasies ONLY
Picture this scenario: You’re lost in thought, thinking about something you’ve always dreamed of, while sipping your hot latte in the Spring sunshine. You begin to laugh, how silly of you to think that this dream could ever come true, right? WRONG. What are dreams and are fantasies? Dream is understood as a cherished aspiration, ambition, or ideal and fantasy is the faculty or activity of imagining impossible or improbable things. But what if your dreams didn’t actually have to be just fantasies? What if you could actually make them
Are you working way too hard? The secret to making YOUR life work (like other people’s!) is easier than you think. Part One.
Why other people’s lives seem to “just work” Have you ever wondered to yourself why other people’s lives just seem to work? They appear carefree, everything is in alignment, they’re getting on with their day-to-day stuff without any stress. They manage to have busy and meaningful lives minus any signs of overwhelm, and opportunities seem to land in their lap. They just have all the luck, right? What is their secret? There must be some magic at play, something the rest of us mere mortals aren’t privy to. The Hamster
Are you working way too hard? The secret to making YOUR life work (like other people’s!) is easier than you think. Part Two.
In part one of this blog, we discussed the hamster wheel of life and how to get off. We talked about what’s working for you and what’s not (which you can assess here: Productivity Success Cake.) And we covered committing to taking control with a calm mind. So now let’s dig a little deeper into how you can design and create the life you want to live, purpose-led and heart-centered, and balanced throughout. Why would you bother designing your life? The answer is plain and simple, if YOU don’t take
Time: Finding more of it and making the most of it. Is that truly possible? Part Two
In part one of this blog, we looked at WHY we want MORE time in our worlds, the research, the desires, the revenge procrastination… So, now let’s have a look at HOW we create more time for ourselves and make the most of the time we do have. HOW It’s IMPOSSIBLE to create ‘additional’ time for yourself. There, I said it. Sorry to disappoint. Time machines haven’t yet been invented (unfortunately). What you CAN do is use your time differently to create SPACE by sacrifice. Sound scary? I promise, it
Time: Finding more of it and making the most of it. Is that truly possible? Part One: Having it Backwards.
Time. Sometimes we wish we had more of it, sometimes we will it to go quicker, sometimes we feel like it’s running out, sometimes we’re waiting for the right time, and we ALL want to make the most of it! Is that really possible? To make the most of every nanosecond? First let’s take some time (see what I did there?!) to explore WHY we have this insatiable craving for MORE time. WHY? At one time ‘work/life balance’ was a hot topic. Today, after nearly a year in COVID, most
Practical Strategies to Move the Resolution Needle Ahead
In my last blog I asked you how your resolutions and intentions were panning out for you, and I’m still interested to know – are you still moving forward with your goals? Do you still feel excited and motivated? I hope so! So, let’s keep that going, shall we? Common Pitfalls Of course, there are some common pitfalls we need to avoid when we’re trying to implement our resolutions. We all know that and we’re probably all guilty of having fallen prey to these common mistakes. So how do we
The Most Unexpected Place to find the End of Status Quo
I’m a big fan of January and the renewed energy, focus, and motivation that seems to accompany it. People often prefer to start new ventures at the beginning of a week, or month, so it makes sense that people LOVE to focus on their goals and start as they mean to go on when January comes around. New year, new me, right? How’s it going now? So now that January is more than ½ way through, I want to know – how’s it all going for you? Have you maintained