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3 Critical Questions every entrepreneur with AD/HD must ask themselves on a regular basis for continued success…

We all want success, of course we do, it’s natural to want to create this for ourselves and those around us. But how do we keep on track? How do we make sure the path ahead is clear and we continue to make progress on our journey?

Everyone will have their own unique method to stay on course but there are some questions you will need to ask yourself frequently, in order to stay on track.

So, here they are. The 3 Critical Questions you need to frequently ask yourself:

I. Am I doing the right things in the right order?

This is really a question of two halves. Am I doing the RIGHT things? And am I doing them in the RIGHT order?

To figure out whether you’re doing the right things, you need to look at the action, then look at the outcome. I’ve talked about this in my blog post How to stop worrying and start doing…

“You need to look back at what you have achieved and acknowledge your progress. If you keep note of what you’re achieving each day, you’ll also be able to analyze what the most productive actions were, meaning you have a better picture of where to focus your efforts the following day.”

So, the first step is to make sure you’re doing the RIGHT things that pave the way to achievement.

To figure out whether you’re doing them in the right order, you need to look at your attention to detail, your energy levels, and how efficient your progress is in relation to your to-do list.

Hopefully, your to-do list will already be broken down into manageable sub-tasks. The trick is to then prioritize these tasks into how simple they are AND how much impact they will have.

“…the 80/20 rule asserts that 80% of your result will be dictated by 20% of your input. And so, identifying the 20% of tasks that will lead to the greatest achievements helps you sustain focus and prioritize what’s most valuable in terms of your goal (and therefore the most productive use of your time).” Read More Here

You’ll want to get that one thing you keep putting off done first. Eat that frog, as they say. Get it out of the way and you’ll feel much more energized and ready to tackle the other stuff.

If you’re finding your attention to detail is waning, this is often due to context switching. Make sure you batch tasks of a similar nature together, so you can maintain focus and not get distracted by the next thing on your list.

Finally, work WITH your energy levels. If you’re feeling especially productive and motivated, use that energy to check a few more things off your list. It’ll put you one step ahead of yourself and allow the opportunity to do less when your energy levels dictate it.


II. Do I know what my overall goal is?

According to Stoic philosopher Seneca, “There is no favorable wind for the sailor who doesn’t know where to go.”

If you don’t know where you’re going, how do you know which steps you must take to get there? Clarity is absolutely KEY. Once you have that clarity, you’ll gain focus and you’ll know which tasks will propel you forward on your journey. You’ll also feel much more motivated to take action.

Quite often, we feel stuck and overwhelmed when our goal is unclear, so it’s an absolute must for you to identify your goal clearly and be certain about WHY you wish to achieve it.


III. Am I having fun?

What’s the point if you’re not enjoying what you do while doing what you love? Of course, there are always tasks we don’t want to do, loitering in the background, sucking up our energy and making us feel anxious. As I’ve said before, get these out of the way as soon as you can, then you can focus on doing the tasks you enjoy that bring you further towards your goal.

Alignment with your values and principles is also necessary. If you’re not enjoying what you’re doing, ask yourself why. Is it because it doesn’t feel right? Is something not quite sitting well with you? If that’s the case, it may not be the tasks that need adapting, it may be the goal you’ve set for yourself so it’s worth analyzing this aspect to make sure you’re headed in the right direction.

In my next blog we’re going to be tackling the importance of time management as well as how to create fun and follow your purpose – so be sure to look out for it!

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How to start when you don’t know where to start

In my last blog we talked about how to stop worrying and start doing – and we covered some techniques to remove the paralysis caused by overwhelm and fear, an aspect that is all too real for some of us.

In this blog, we’re going to break it down a bit further because sometimes, we just don’t know where to begin.

Often, getting started is the hardest part. Once we have a clear idea of what we need to do and how we’re going to do it, we can begin and then momentum and progress help us stay motivated and on track.

But, where do you start? I’m glad you asked. Here goes:

FIRST: Begin beforehand.

Before you start your day at 8 or 9, have a plan for your day before that. Wait, what? NO…. NOT IN TINY DETAIL. But PLEASE know what you’re doing – at least in terms of “theme” or “larger chunks.” So for example, if it’s Monday, you know you will need time to catch up from the weekend (right?), assuming you take time on the weekends to enjoy your life. Some of my colleagues recommend starting Sunday night to plan for the week and Monday. For me, I listen to my favorite podcast each Monday morning as it sets the tone for my week. I do not set client appointments on Mondays. I call Monday “marketing Monday.” That’s why I hold Wisdom Warriors then. I am giving (through Wisdom Warriors) to you all, so that you can come to know and like and trust me (this is part of Marketing). Down the line, you may choose to take the work deeper, and buy a program.  Or tell a friend. Thanks for that, by the way. I’m so happy you are finding a better life…but I digress.

Contrast this idea of beginning beforehand with sort of just “email-responding your way into your day.” Yes, I’m talking about YOU. I know you “work from your inbox.” What does that mean, anyhow (a workshop participant told me this one time). Well….your inbox is full of other people’s requests. Hmmmmmmm…….love me some overwhelm <NOT> – and “working from your inbox” is a great recipe to get there (the land of overwhelm). Personally, I like WHELM!

SECOND: Pay yourself first.

What?

Each minute could be like a dollar. Or many. You would not throw your money into the air, would you? This is what we do when we are unfocused. Thousands, out the window. And then we don’t have money to invest in our business. Right?

When you PAY YOURSELF FIRST, you look at your HIGHEST ENERGY PARTS OF THE DAY and schedule your MOST IMPORTANT PRIORITIES then. For example, if you are a morning person, don’t schedule meetings in your high energy time (say before 10:30 am) Save this for later. Don’t do your Task List during this time. What do you do, then? Do YOUR BIG PICTURE STUFF. You spend time on that stuff that “you never seem to have time to do.” Yup. Leave the “list”: do the right stuff. NOTE: If you do this, it will seem really hard. And, if you do this, your whole world will be blown wide open.

>>Potential Pitfall: You start at 8 am, doing your “most important stuff.” Then you realize, you have absolutely no idea what that is. So, you answer some email. Right? Ok that’s another blog……

THIRD: Perform housekeeping on your brain.

When there is So Much To Do….it’s easy to spin. To take a bite out of this or that. You launch at something as you “don’t want to forget about it.” Your whole day is kind of like “poison dart thought triage” between scheduled appointments. Yes?

The Housekeeping Solution: The brain dump.

Grab a big sketch book or notepad and brain dump. Get everything out, and I mean EVERYTHING.  You will feel better so that poison dart thoughts are not circling anymore. You will start to see themes. Maybe you will now take some index cards, write each thing on a card, and start to make piles. Now things feel organized.

Then, you can do this. First put a rubber band around each pile. Take each pile (now this is a theme-pile) and ask yourself -what is most important? You pick up the most important and turn it upside down. Then choose the next most important pile. Turn it upside down on top of the first. Continue this process until you have turned all the piles upside down in a BIG pile. Turn the whole thing over, right side up. What do you have?

Your list. In priority order. Hot damn!

Now. Take your first pile. Estimate how long it will take. Add that time chunk into your calendar, adding a bit of extra time since we almost always underestimate…

So, how are you gonna get through this?

The Pomodoro Technique

The premise is that you manage your time in 25-minute chunks. First you choose a task you want to complete. Set the timer for 25 minutes. Work on that task until your timer rings. Then you check it off your list and take a short 5 minute break (grab a coffee or go for a short walk) to reset and re-center. Then for every 4 ‘pomodoros’, you take a longer break (20-30 mins).

This technique is great for those of us who have lots of different things to do because switching context can be one of the biggest triggers of feeling overwhelmed. The Pomodoro Technique eliminates context switching within the timeframe you’re working on each individual task. Checking it off your list will activate the reward center in your brain and you’ll feel a sense of achievement which will help you to feel more motivated. It’s an awesome technique to battle overwhelm and increase your productivity – win/win!

So, that’s a good start…to get started. Right? What’s the part you intend to do? Write a comment.

Our Wisdom Warriors meeting this month will cover the above and more. Sometimes we just need to take a deep breath and re-center but that’s easier said than done. So let’s look at these techniques together and uncover ways in which we can progress without overwhelm as a constant companion!

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How to stop worrying and start doing

For those of us who struggle with procrastination, learning how to stop worrying, and start doing seems like the holy grail.

Most of us have busy lives, whether that’s running a business or running a home – or often both! There are usually things that we naturally tackle, like getting the kids ready for school for example, or checking our emails, but sometimes the other tasks we know we have to do just pile up and become like a mountain we must climb.

When you have so much to do but don’t know where to begin, say hello to overwhelm.

Overwhelm is much like fear and both have a peculiar effect in that they can paralyze us completely. When you have business work and/or ‘life admin’ to combat, it can all just seem too much and this stress, overwhelm, and fear will trigger your brain into fight, flight, or freeze mode.

When fight mode is triggered, you may become a productivity machine and find you’re able to naturally tackle tasks with zest and efficiency. Your brain is fighting to keep you alive in this instance and you get a rush of the hormones and chemicals that gear you up to face things head on.

When flight mode is triggered, your brain and body are attempting to flee a perceived threat. You may even physically feel the fear, overwhelm, and stress through tightness of the chest or a faster heartbeat, for example. This can often manifest as seeking distraction, avoiding the ‘problem’, trying to escape.

And then we have freeze mode. Your mind will be completely overwhelmed, and you become indecisive, inactive, and on shut down. You might catch yourself staring off into space or repeating the same phrase over and over in your mind. 

If that sounds familiar, you’re really not alone. There has been a vast amount of studies done on this subject and the results show that this biological response can have real negative impacts on our mental and physical health.  

So, what do we do?

We find ways to adjust our behaviors and habits so that we can best manage our responsibilities without having to face the fear and overwhelm.

Snack size tasks

I always recommend breaking tasks down into smaller tasks. Divide, and divide again. Try to break the tasks down into such small sub-tasks that they appear ridiculously simple to achieve. Then check them off the list as you go. This action of checking things off your list will release some happy hormones and you will feel a sense of achievement knowing that you’re on the right track.

Tracking

And talking of tracks, tracking your progress can be really useful. You need to look back at what you have achieved and acknowledge your progress. If you keep note of what you’re achieving each day, you’ll also be able to analyze what the most productive actions were, meaning you have a better picture of where to focus your efforts the following day.

Talking

Something that can be hugely beneficial is talking it out. Vent. Whether it be with a friend or coach, just discussing the feelings you’re experiencing and releasing some of that pent-up frustration will have a positive impact. Often, just having the conversation will allow you to gain clarity and help you to feel more motivated and stronger and ready to face whatever it is that’s causing the stress.

In my next blog we’ll be looking at HOW to start when you don’t know WHERE to start. I’ll continue on the theme of overwhelm and we’ll cover more techniques on how to handle the heat without having to get out of the kitchen.

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3 ways to create focus (part 2)

In part 1 of this blog we delved into some of the reasons you may be struggling to focus right now and looked at the 100 day sprint technique as a solution and overall fast-track to achievement.

Now, we’re going to take a look at some other ways to create more focus and how to identify the tasks that will have the biggest impact on your productivity, and therefore outcomes. I’m also going to share some great tips to combat boredom and overwhelm.  


Using the 80/20 rule to identify the most important things

The Pareto Principle (commonly known as the 80/20 rule) is a great place to start when identifying what needs your focus most.

If you’re unfamiliar with this rule, or just need a refresher, the 80/20 rule asserts that 80% of your result will be dictated by 20% of your input. And so, identifying the 20% of tasks that will lead to the greatest achievements helps you sustain focus and prioritize what’s most valuable in terms of your goal (and therefore the most productive use of your time).

Now, that’s all well and good, but how do I determine what the most important tasks are? – I hear you ask.

Using 4 metrics to measure the worth of each to-do

Identifying your most important to-dos may take some time, but it’ll save time in the long run and jump-start your focus and productivity as well as reinforce your enthusiasm.

By now, you should already be familiar with what’s on your to-do list, so let’s look at those tasks in greater detail and reprioritize them.

1. Impact/value of activity

First off, you’ll want to assess the impact and value of each specific activity. How will it support your overall goal? If any task on your to-do list will have little to no impact, deprioritize it. Prioritize tasks that will get you results.

2. Time required

Now you’ve identified your most valuable tasks, have a look at each and estimate how much time each will take. You’ll then want to prioritize the to-dos that take the least time.

3. Difficulty

Now look each to-do and assess its difficulty or complexity. Does it need to be broken down into sub-tasks? Prioritize the simplest activities.

4. Cost

This category will mean different things to different people. So just jump in with your gut feeling. How much will it cost you to complete the activity? You’ll want to put anything of “zero” cost at the top.

Now you have your priorities set. If a task is high-impact, requires little time, is simple enough, and costs nothing – that’s number one on your to-do list.

I haven’t forgotten that I promised you some tips on how to handle boredom and overwhelm… So here goes.


3 tips on what to do when a task is really boring

  • Eat the Frog.
    • What’s your frog? I’d define your “frog” as that thing you are not doing. That thing you keep putting on your list but you avoid. Eat it. Get it over and done. Is it a confusing frog? Nail down one clear and do-able frog leg, then. Eat that. Your reward can be doing the little stuff. The reactive “atta-boy or atta-girl” stuff. The emails where people are saying, “wow you are so helpful and responsive!” Believe me, you can still be helpful and responsive. And you will be accountable and kind to YOU by eating the frog. Even if it’s only the frogleg.
  • Take smaller bites.
    • One way to combat those super boring things is to set your timer. This makes it fun-ner (I am all about fun) and also it’s a game (my ad/hd folks, especially, LOVE games and contests). Woo hoo! So…do this…set a timer for 10 minutes and for only those 10 minutes, focus on that task. Or if you’ve broken the to-do down into sub-tasks, just take one at a time. Usually, once we get into things, we continue with them and you’ll have it over and done with before you know it. It’s mind blowing how we avoid and procrastinate, and, when we actually “do” it…it takes a much shorter time! Stop when you said you were going to so you believe yourself the next time. And….supertip…if something is 2 min or less, just do it! Don’t put it on the list at all…
  • Give yourself a pat on the back.
    • Regular rewards work wonders and help maintain your focus. Whatever your reward may be (it could be a walk in the crisp Fall air, or 10 minute YouTube break), make sure you feel good after having completed something you find dull.

All of the above can really help when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Having an action plan with clear priorities and milestones will enable you to approach your goal with confidence.

Remind yourself daily of what you want to achieve and why. Visualize what things will be like when you’ve met your goal. And remember, you only need to focus on one task at a time and you’ll naturally reach your goal. 

Maintaining focus and sustaining productivity can be really tough, but these tips will really help. If you want more help with productivity, I’m excited to tell you I have a new class starting mid-September. Keep your eyes peeled for more information, coming soon.

In the meantime, nail down that 100 day sprint-goal and take the productivity quiz to see how ready you are!

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3 ways to create focus (part 1)

Maintaining focus on your goals and ambitions can be really tough. Life is distracting. Yet, focus is critical for productivity. This information is not new. Right? And, information is not transformation. And information, plus assessing where you are right now, is step one.

Let’s explore ways you can actually implement focus techniques. We often know what we NEED to do, it’s just the DOING it that we struggle with. (which can then lead to those voices saying “we are not good enough…”)

So let’s not let those voices in the door.

Whether or not you’re a parent, it’s ‘end of summer – back to school’ now, which can really derail your life and business. It’s a period of transition. Transition takes energy. When we choose (consciously or subconsciously) to give our energy to something, we are not giving it to something else. So, if you are up-leveling your productivity in biz or in life…then you need to deal with the School Conundrum….well, it can be derailing.

But it does not have to be this way.

With endings come opportunities for new beginnings, and new beginnings are exciting and motivating. We can use this to our advantage.

Labor Day marks the end of Summertime and with it brings approximately 100 remaining days of business before the Holiday Season takes hold. This is a great time to embark on an achievement sprint.

Is the concept of the ‘100 Day Sprint’ unfamiliar? Check out this guy.

Here’s the deal.

  • You rested over the summer (right? If not, do it now. This fall’s gonna be a doozey. You cannot afford to skip this.)
  • Your prospects rested.
  • Business generally slows.
  • Decisions get made in September when the weather shifts.

Whether or not you have a business, September creates that refreshing energy to fast track results. And having a deadline makes the Time Horizon shorter. I know you procrastinate. We all do. 100 days, people. Let’s do this.

SO: take a look at your “100 day sprint goal” and take a moment to appreciate how far you’ve come in spite of COVID and world upheaval. Even if you feel behind, you’ve made a conscious decision to commit, so good for you! Acknowledge that and appreciate yourself.

Then:

  • List your intermediate milestones on route to the goal you’ve set out to accomplish.
  • Break each milestone down into achievable tasks, each with a deadline.
  • Make a plan to track and measure the milestones, this will keep you motivated.

And, do make a contingency plan or leave a bit of wiggle room, just in case. Remember to include rest days as well, as R&R is super important for productivity.

Now, you may be left feeling overwhelmed with how much there is left to do. That’s normal. Don’t fret. You’re creating a plan, and with it will come motivation and excitement. Let that excitement flood your system for a moment rather than drown in the overwhelm.

Breaking things down into achievable tasks with definitive milestones allows you to take one day at a time, one task at a time. And don’t forget to work in short blasts and listen to your own energy levels. If you’re having a particularly productive day, there’s nothing stopping you getting a little ahead of yourself. Just make sure you don’t take on too much because this will cause burnout and stop you in your tracks.

In the second part of this blog we’ll look at 3 more awesome ways you can create focus and combat boredom and overwhelm.

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3 Mantras to Keep a Focused Mind (part 2)

In part one of this blog, we touched on some underlying issues that contribute to a lack of focus. You even had the opportunity to check out what your own cake is looking like. Missed it?

No worries! The Success Cake Evaluation is right- HERE!

So now we’re going to explore HOW we can keep a focused mind,

First, let’s look at 3 Mantras. (For those of you unfamiliar with this term, it’s like a little “jingle” that is simple and meant to stick in your head as it gets repeated over and over.)

NOTE: Scroll to the bottom for my super-special tips for AD/HD people…you know who you are!

Mantra One –

Focus like a fiend (at least part of the time)

One of the reasons you may struggle to maintain focus is that there’s simply too much going on around you or you have more than one project on the go. Trying to multitask is often counterproductive and you end up getting very little done or get fed up and become easily distracted.

Pick one task and focus like a fiend. Research shows that focusing for a while then taking a short break improves our focus when it’s needed. Anything between 40 and 90-minute blasts appears to be optimal so set your timer and focus on the task in hand. When your time is up, take a 10–20-minute break, rinse and repeat.

Mantra Two –

Recreation and rest help focus best

It’s all too easy to keep forcing ourselves to try to focus for prolonged periods and be ‘on’ all the time, however, research shows that a little R&R helps our focus and productivity massively.  

As mentioned above, our breaks are just as important as our time spent focusing. Our ‘off’ time allows us to relax or have fun and acts as a reset button to our brains, enabling us to focus better when we pick back up.

Recreation and rest are just as important as focus and productivity and finding the balance allow each to complement the other.

Mantra Three –

Move, eat, sleep

We touched on these areas in part one of this blog and there’s a lot to be said for taking care of your physical health.

–      Move – Make sure you’re getting enough exercise, not only does it release endorphins which help elevate your mood and therefore motivation, but it actually gives you more energy and helps ward off that afternoon slump.

–      Eat – Make sure you’re eating plenty of fresh fruit and veg, this is the fuel your body and mind need to operate effectively. And stay hydrated, plenty of water will prevent headaches and keep you more alert.

–      Sleep – Make sure you’re getting enough sleep every night. Research varies on the optimum amount, but all agree that snoozing your alarm is a bad idea.

How much is enough?

This will, of course, vary from person to person and it’s up to you to find your rhythm. Whether you’re working an 8-hour day in an office or you work alone at home, just becoming aware of these elements that affect your concentration will help improve your focus.

Wait, I have AD/HD. It’s not that easy!

Truth.

Here’s some “extras” made just for you!’

  1. A clear desk is not a “nice to have.” With AD/HD the mind gets cluttered in a cluttered space. Take a few minutes to move what you’re not working on, so it does not distract you.
  2. Make a list. A short one. The shorter the better.
  3. Write to yourself. For example, if you need to write a proposal, and this is something where you find yourself derailing at times, write “this is not the time to clean the office. You can do that tomorrow.”
  4. Enlist support. Ask a friend, spouse, coach, accountability buddy to check in on you at certain times to see how you’re doing. AD/HD people do better in community…not alone!

Finally,  remember to take your Success Cake Evaluation – HERE so that you can make the cake of your dreams, starting NOW!