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Ignite Your Mission: Simplify December to Step Into January Strong

Learn How Specific, Actionable Goals Can Help You End the Year With Purpose

Mid-December Reflections: Focusing on What Truly Matters

Hey, solopreneurs and busy professionals, this one’s for you. It’s mid-December, and if you’re anything like me, you’ve likely been juggling an overwhelming number of responsibilities while trying to make sense of it all. Over the last few weeks, I’ve shared strategies to help simplify this season—whether that’s narrowing your focus to three things or even just one.

As we approach the end of the year, let’s lean into the idea of clarity. Whether you’re an introvert like me, who finds solace in calm and reflection, or an extrovert who thrives in the bustle, the challenge is often the same: figuring out what truly deserves your energy.

The Power of Being Specific

A recent exchange with someone in our community brought this into focus. They shared their three goals for December: health, happiness, and resilience. These are wonderful intentions, but they’re broad and, honestly, difficult to measure. Here’s the truth: specific is terrific. When you define your goals clearly, you set yourself up for success.

Let me give you an example of what I mean. For me, my December goals are:

  1. Hit 5,000 steps daily. My usual target is 10,000, but with the holiday hustle, I’m giving myself grace.
  2. Ask for help with dinners. I’m focusing on simplicity instead of perfection when it comes to meals.
  3. Reconnect with my mission: Helping you ignite the flame of your passion without sacrificing everything else is my mission, so I’m plastering it everyplace!

When your goals are specific, they’re actionable—and that’s when real progress happens.

Exciting News: My Mission in Action

This month, I took a bold step out of my comfort zone to connect with a larger audience. I participated as a vendor at the Massachusetts Women’s Conference on December 12, an event with over 10,000 attendees. My booth was all about creating a grounding step by step experience, helping attendees reconnect with what truly matters.

The booth experience mirrored the journey I want for all of us:

  1. Ground yourself. Take time to get centered and reflect on what you want.
  2. Get clear. Identify what you’re holding onto that’s not serving you and let it go.
  3. Move forward. Understand what you truly want and why, then choose your next step.

The energy at the conference was electric, and it reminded me of the importance of these small, intentional moments to refocus on what matters most.

Your Invitation

Now, I want to extend this opportunity to you. As we wrap up this year, what’s one thing you want to carry into January? Be specific. Make it actionable. Then share it with me—I’d love to hear from you.

Looking ahead, I’m hosting a Kickoff the New Year Workshop on January 13th. This is a chance to plant the seeds for the year you truly want, with guided steps to help you take meaningful action. If this resonates, reach out to me or sign up—let’s make 2024 your best year yet.

My mission is to support your mission. Together, let’s figure out how to ignite the flame without burning out.

Until next time, remember: clarity is key, and small steps lead to big changes.

Cheers!

Carol

PS: My client David just keeps evolving. Here’s what he says about his experience as he CONTINUES to level up!

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Four steps to reclaim yourself as we begin the holiday season

Practical tips for managing your energy and staying true to your values this holiday season

Before I get started, be sure to register for Monday’s Overachier’s Club where we will dive into a juicy topic: get your needs met without being selfish!

Monday Dec 2 at 12noon Eastern SIGN UP HERE


The holidays are here, and with them come colder nights, busier days, and for many of us, the pull to overgive and overextend. It’s easy to lose sight of our needs when we’re focused on creating joy for others. But this season presents an unparalleled opportunity to pause, reflect, and refocus—not to take away from giving, but to give from a place of wholeness. Today, I’m sharing a simple, yet powerful four-step process to help you slow down, articulate your needs, and balance giving with honoring yourself.

1. Remember What You Need

This step has two parts: remembering yourself and recognizing your desires. When life gets hectic, we often forget to check in with ourselves. Slow down. Take an energy inventory. Ask yourself, “Where is my energy going, and what do I truly need?”

For example, you might notice that you’re saying yes to every holiday invitation but neglecting downtime to recharge. Acknowledging this is the first step to realignment.

2. Articulate Your Needs

It’s one thing to know what you need, but it’s another to voice it. Start by articulating your desires to yourself. Write them in a journal, add reminders to your phone, or jot them on sticky notes.

Next, communicate them to those around you. Maybe you need help with holiday preparations or a few uninterrupted hours to focus on your business. Speaking up might feel uncomfortable at first, but it’s a vital practice.

3. Trust There’s Another Side

When you’re feeling exhausted or overwhelmed, remember that it won’t last forever. Trust that by addressing your needs now, you’re creating space for a better day tomorrow.

For example, on a recent tough day, I admitted to myself and my family, “I don’t feel great today.” That small act of honesty lifted a weight. By allowing my feelings to simmer instead of bottling them up, I found myself feeling lighter and more creative the next day.

4. Be Okay with Conflicting Values

The holidays often highlight the tension between wanting peace and honoring your own needs. It’s natural to feel torn. You may want to maintain harmony by saying “yes” to everything, but that peace can come at the cost of your well-being.

True balance comes from accepting these conflicting values and making intentional choices. For example, you might choose to delegate some holiday tasks or skip a few events so you can focus on what truly matters to you.


Join Me for More!

These four steps are just the beginning. We’ll go deeper into this process during the free December session of The Overachievers Club.

🗓 Date: Monday, December 2nd
⏰ Time: 12:00 PM – 1:00 PM EST
💻 Where: Online (Zoom)

IT’S ALWAYS FREE OF CHARGE SO TELL A FRIEND!

This is your chance to design a holiday season that feels intentional, joyful, and manageable. You deserve to end the year feeling empowered and aligned.

Until then, take a moment to reflect on your needs and desires. What would make this season meaningful for you? Let me know—I’d love to hear from you.

Happy Thanksgiving to those celebrating, and I’ll see you soon!

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30 days to focus: Simplify your end-of-year priorities

Finish 2024 feeling fulfilled with this simple strategy

Focused Priorities: Your 30-Day Challenge to End the Year Right  

Today I am gonna make it short and sweet. We have about 30 days until the solstice and December holidays roughly. This can be a time of very high stress. What I want for you, what I’m gonna invite you to do is to create no more than three priorities for the next 30 days. Do more of what will make you feel happy, whole, and satisfied. 

No more than three things. Please hit return and tell me those three things that are the most important for you for the next 30 days, which gets you roughly to the December solstice. What I want for you is to feel as though you ended the year the way you wanted to. No more than three things. Ready, go!

Your turn to help me help you as we look to 2025.

No hidden obligations, just 2 min of your time. PLEASE ANSWER THESE 2 SHORT QUESTIONS. I give lots and now I have this ask so I can keep giving and being relevant to your inbox. Thanks for that!

And Happy Thanksgiving! Gratitude heals. Let’s do more of THAT, right?

Let’s look at what’s good in the world,

Carol

PS: If you have not signed up yet, and want more time…now is your chance! I’m doing an educational webinar really soon!

Where Did the Time Go? 5 Ways to Accomplish a Lot More in a Day

December 06, 2024

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Beyond crisis mode: Strategic Thinking for tumultuous times

Turn turbulence into triumph with practical tips for resilience

NOTE! Be sure to read to the end for an unusual and amazing opportunity…

Most people I know are going through some up-and-down, tumultuous times right now. It’s not the same for everyone; these shifts impact each of us differently. 

November 5th isn’t the same as March 2020. Some people, including you perhaps, may feel waves of intense feelings right now—crisis feelings. If that sounds like you, keep listening.

I originally created an eBook in March 2020, responding to that world crisis. But after waking up on November 6th this year, I realized it was time to dust it off and share it again. While I haven’t updated the content, I feel it’s still relevant, so I’m putting it out there.

Today, I’ll be sharing highlights from the insights I developed four and a half years ago. We’ll explore how to get ourselves out of crisis mode, grounded, and centered to become more of our true selves. Because as leaders, influencers, and strategic thinkers, life can pull us off balance, scatter us, and leave us feeling unlike ourselves. This guide was built precisely for those moments.

The Savvy Business Owner’s Guide to Thinking Strategically During a Crisis

This guide, which I created as a productivity specialist, is all about finding security and support during crisis times. Today, even as an evolved business coach, those ideas remain essential. 

Let’s dive into some highlights:

Productivity Pyramid

When thinking about stability, it’s important to acknowledge feelings of fear and insecurity. Many people are experiencing these right now. Recognize those feelings as real—they form the base of the **Productivity Pyramid**. This concept combines Maslow’s hierarchy with productivity essentials, starting from a secure foundation and building upwards through health, support systems, and finally, productivity.

Stages of Crisis

Understanding the stages of crisis feelings can help us manage our responses. Here are the 10 Stages of Crisis you might relate to:

1. Disbelief – I spoke with people on the 6th, 7th, 8th of November who were experiencing this.

2. Panic – Some are worried about their businesses, feeling they’ll have to take every opportunity to ensure stability.

3. Anger and Blame – As reality sets in, anger can arise, sometimes directed at “the other side.”

4. Sadness and Grief – We mourn what we’ve lost or what we no longer have.

5. Acceptance – If you can reach acceptance, you’re doing great. Accepting reality helps us regain control.

6. Readjustment – Time to strategize and ask, “How do we keep moving forward?”

7. Attuning to a New Normal – Life inevitably brings change. Accepting this helps us adapt.

8. Listening for Strategic Prosperity – Look for what’s working. Even amid a crisis, there’s often an opportunity for growth.

9. Adjusting as Required – Staying flexible helps us navigate new challenges.

10. Peace – It may be hard to believe, but peace is attainable regardless of external chaos.

In the end, choosing peace can be transformative. Imagine if everyone believed that something good is on the horizon. It could change everything.

Having been through numerous crises, from global events to personal challenges, I know that these experiences build resilience. And I know there are more challenges ahead. Yet, every time, we come through stronger.


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I am offering 3 bonus sessions for amazing transformation to 3 lucky people. 

One spot has been taken already, so….I have 2 more places. PLEASE NOTE THIS OFFER IS GOOD UNTIL THANKSGIVING OR WHENEVER THE NEXT 2 FOLKS SAY “YES”

Details and how to take advantage of this kind and generous offer to move you up the pyramid and into action: email me at carol@unscatterme.com with “unfreeze me now” and we will set up your call to see if this is right for you.

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How to make time for things that bring you joy when you don’t have time

Balance in a very unbalanced world


Balance. We talk about it a lot, and many of us say we want it. Yet for years, I’ve been challenging the idea. As a Libra, I know balance is always on my mind, but I believe in the power of being *off-balance on purpose*. Today, I want to revisit the idea of balance—but this time, I’m diving into what *you* shared as the meaning of true balance in your lives.

Whether you’ve shared publicly or messaged me privately, certain themes have come up repeatedly. Here are four powerful themes, based on your words, that give us a unique approach to balance. I invite you to see which of these resonate, and think about how you might intentionally structure your life and schedule to bring in more of what matters to you.

The Four Elements of True Balance

When we’re clear on what we want, balance becomes about designing our days to meet those desires. Here’s the breakdown from your feedback—let’s see how these can work for you.

1. Your Life’s Great Work

The first thing people wanted was time to pursue what I like to call “your Great Work in the world.” This isn’t necessarily your 9-to-5 or a side hustle, although it could be connected. It’s that calling, that life’s work that pulls you forward. For many, balancing time for your great work with other responsibilities is at the top of the list.

2. Relaxation and Rest

Right up there with great work, people shared the need for dedicated time to *rest and relax*. Work can’t exist without downtime, and rest can’t be pushed aside until we’re burned out. This isn’t just about lounging; it’s about refueling so you can show up fully in your great work and everything else.

3. Movement and Health

Next came the desire for movement—exercise, getting outdoors, and focusing on healthy habits. Our work and rest are both supported by a strong foundation of health. Carving out time for these elements keeps us energized and capable of handling all that life demands.

4. Quiet Reflection Time

This one doesn’t always get the spotlight but is often what people feel most deeply connected to when they *do* make space for it: time for quiet reflection. Whether through journaling, meditation, or simple moments of stillness, these times help us reconnect to our intentions and keep our energy balanced.

Creating Balance That Sticks

So here’s a question for you to consider. If you begin your day with a sense of your balance priorities, how do you want to feel at the end of the day? If time for reflection gets pushed aside, does that feel like a major loss? How about exercise? Or your Great Work?

Treat each day like you’re preparing for a trip, and your time for movement, reflection, work, and rest is as important as packing the essentials for that journey. Knowing the destination gives us direction; knowing what we need helps us stay prepared.

Let’s Define Your Balance Together!

We’ll go much deeper into these themes on Veteran’s Day, November 11th at noon Eastern, in The Overachievers Club. This monthly session is free, and I’m excited to explore how each of us can build a balance that feels uniquely right. 

If you’re ready to redefine balance for yourself and gain the clarity to put it into practice, join us! And…I’m unleashing  a surprise this month, so be sure to come along.  Can’t wait to see you there! 🕰️🌱

p.s. did you listen to my recent podcast with Thom Stimpel of The Entrepreneurs Guild?

Listen here

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4 steps to stop the social media scroll & still get your dopamine

Discover why your brain craves the scroll—and manage it mindfully

Ever find yourself in an endless scroll on social media, wondering where the time went? You’re not alone! So many people struggle with the same thing. It’s no wonder, with our brains constantly craving that dopamine boost.

There are popular methods to combat this, like deleting social media apps off your phone. And while it works for many, there’s something deeper at play. By understanding what’s happening in our brains during these social scrolls, we can approach dopamine strategically and take control of our focus.

Today, I’ll walk you through a unique way to manage your dopamine—the **DOPA** approach. I didn’t invent it, but it’s too good not to share. This approach works especially well for people with ADHD-like tendencies, or anyone who finds themselves jumping from one thing to another without finishing. Ready? Let’s dive in!

Dopamine and Why We Scroll

Dopamine is often called the “feel-good” hormone, and it’s central to our motivation. It drives us to do things that feel rewarding, but the problem is that our brains can get a bit lazy about it. Instead of focusing on productive dopamine hits, like exercise or creativity, we reach for quick fixes, like cookies or social media. The thrill we get from scrolling or snacking is temporary, often followed by a crash.

The DOPA Approach: A Menu for Your Mind

Here’s a framework to approach dopamine with intention:

DOPA: I did not make this up and it’s all over TikTok!

  • Design your dopamine triggers  
  • Omit distractions  
  • Prepare for productive boosts  
  • Advertise reminders to yourself  

Think of it like building a “Dopamine Menu” with starters, mains, sides, and desserts:

1. Starters

   Starters are the activities that get you moving quickly. These should be simple and quick dopamine boosts, like a five-minute dance break, a few jumping jacks, or even just stepping outside for some fresh air. Use these to get started when you feel stuck.

2. Mains 

   These are dopamine activities that require more time and provide a deeper satisfaction. Examples include going on a hike, doing an art project, or meeting a friend for coffee. Save these for times when you can afford the time commitment.

3. Sides

Sides go along with your mains and make the experience more enjoyable and easier to execute…especially important for a busy brain. Think about setting the mood with music, using pleasant lighting, or even putting on a soothing scent in your workspace. These subtle touches can boost your motivation and make tasks feel less daunting.

4. Desserts 

Dessert activities are your treats but should be saved for last. This might be watching a Netflix show, having a sweet snack, or scrolling social media. These aren’t off-limits, but they’re best used as rewards after you’ve completed more productive tasks.

Putting It All Together

Using this DOPA approach helps you pre-plan your dopamine sources throughout the day. That way, you don’t have to rely on impulsive, unplanned dopamine fixes like scrolling. Write out your personal Dopamine Menu, with each category filled in with activities that make you feel good and focused. This way, you’re ready to pull from it throughout your day.

If you’ve tried this out or created your own Dopamine Menu, let me know! What’s one activity you’ll try adding to your starters or mains this week?

Let’s take charge of our dopamine and find more balance, focus, and joy! You’ve got this!

PS: Sometimes it simply boils down to “the basics” – learn how Megan increased results on her health, her wealth, & her relationships. Watch her here

Want to explore how YOU can turn around doom scrolling and doing what you KNOW is not good for you? Let’s talk!