Learn how to align your goals with your mission and create sustainable success in the new year
Ignite Your Fire: Harness Your Passion and Burn Away What Holds You Back
Last week, I had the incredible honor of being a vendor at the Massachusetts Women’s Conference, where 11,000 powerhouse women gathered, featuring awe-inspiring speakers, including Oprah Winfrey herself. It was an unforgettable experience to connect with so many driven women who are setting the world on fire with their ambitions.
One of the key visuals at my booth was a fire. While it wasn’t a real flame—indoor events and safety rules don’t mix—it represented something deeply symbolic. This fire symbolized burning away what no longer serves us and igniting the passions and dreams that fuel our purpose. As Oprah asked during her keynote, “What have I come to this planet to offer?” That question lingered in the minds of many attendees, yet I noticed something surprising—a lot of these brilliant women didn’t take the next step of answering it for themselves.
Beyond Goals: Recognizing Where You Are
Here’s the thing: Many of us are go-getters. We know our goals. We’ve set them, written them down, and maybe even created vision boards. But in the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s easy to lose sight of where we are in the process. Are we on track? Are we still pursuing what truly matters, or have we veered off course?
At the conference, I met several women who experienced lightbulb moments. One woman realized that her current job wasn’t aligned with her long-term goals, so she’s now crafting an exit strategy. Another had been putting off her dream for ten years, convinced she needed more experience. That hesitation, driven by the voices in her head keeping her “safe,” was holding her back from fully stepping into her greatness. Recognizing these barriers is the first step to moving forward.
Disrupting Your Thinking: Why Your Fire Matters
So often, the voices in our heads keep us small. They tell us to wait, to play it safe, to not rock the boat. But when you step into your amazingness, something extraordinary happens. You harness your fire, that burning desire within, and direct it with purpose.
This isn’t just about setting goals. It’s about going deeper—excavating what’s truly holding you back and asking yourself the tough questions. For example, one of my favorite exercises is a tongue-in-cheek twist: “How could I really mess up next year?” Writing down all the ways things could go wrong highlights exactly what you need to avoid and how to set yourself up for success.
Moving Beyond SMART Goals
SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound—are valuable tools. But before you even get to setting those goals, you need to address the bigger picture:
- What lights your fire?
- Where are you burning out?
- What do you need to let go of?
- Where do you want to focus your energy?
When you align your long-term vision with your actions, everything changes. This isn’t about a single year—it’s about creating a roadmap for the next three years, the next decade, and beyond.
Join Me to Ignite Your Fire
On January 13th, I’m hosting a transformative two-hour workshop designed to help you go beyond traditional goal-setting. This isn’t just about creating another list of tasks; it’s about understanding your mission and creating a clear, actionable path forward. With a workbook, guided exercises, and deep reflection, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back and how to reignite your passion.
Seats are limited, and as of now, there are only five left. If you’re ready to harness your fire and step into your greatness, this is your chance. Let’s create a plan to light up your life and make an impact.
Your Next Step
If you’re ready to stop playing small, let me know what fire you want to ignite and what you’re ready to burn away. Comment on the post, or email me. Let’s make 2025 the year you step into your amazingness.
I can’t wait to see you at the workshop or connect with you soon!
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